James Donaldson on Mental Health – 4 in 10 boys have considered suicide in past two weeks, new report shows

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A new national study highlighted by the Wisconsin Office of Children’s Mental Health shows that 90 percent of sextortion victims are boys between the ages of 14 to 17. It also shows that boys are 2 to 4 times more likely to die of suicide compared to girls.

MADISON (WKOW) — A new report from the Wisconsin Office of Children’s Mental Health is shedding light on the growing mental health crisis among boys.

According to the report, four in 10 boys have thought about suicide in the past two weeks. The report also shows that 90 percent of sextortion victims are boys between the ages of 14 and 17, and boys are two to four times more likely to die by suicide than girls.

That troubling statistic became a reality for the Ellefson family, who lost their 14-year-old son, Jacob, to suicide.

Teri Ellefson, Jacob’s mother, says there were no clear signs at the time, but looking back, she remembers him spending more time alone in his room.

“Maybe we could have asked more questions back then. But we also know that after we found out, after Jake passed away that he had talked to one or some of his friends about, you know, having some really bad thoughts and maybe wanting to hurt himself,” Ellefson said. “Those friends didn’t know what to do with that, and so they just kept it to themselves,” she said.

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Linda Hall, Director of Wisconsin’s Office of Children’s Mental Health, says societal expectations placed on boys can make it harder for them to express emotions and ask for help.

“In our society, boys are encouraged to not speak about their emotions, to just as you say, bottle them up, and that means that they’re not communicating about their thoughts and their feelings, and they’re not getting help adjusting with them,” Hall said.

Part of their work is to provide resources to help parents build stronger emotional connections with their children and break down that stigma.

“It’s really important for parents to model, understand talking about feelings and how they cope with them, and model coping skills,” Hall said. 

Ellefson urges everyone, even kids, to speak up if they see or hear something concerning. It could have helped save Jacob.

“Your friends may be mad at you for a while, and that’s okay, but you know what, they’re still going to be here, hopefully,” Ellefson said. 

The Ellefsons are keeping Jacob’s legacy alive through Jacob’s Swagg Foundation, which is dedicated to helping families and preventing similar tragedies. But she says it takes everyone doing their part.

“Have the conversations, you know. Don’t make it such a big presentation. You know, when you’re sitting driving to a sporting event or sitting picking up from a sport or a supper, just talk about it. ‘Hey, how are you doing?’ Like, truly, you know, ‘How are you feeling? Are you feeling tired?’ You know, ‘what’s going on?'” she said.

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