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James Donaldson on Mental Health – What parents, caregivers can do if their child is struggling with mental health
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Janie Slaven, The Times-Tribune, Corbin, Ky.
This story discusses suicide. Anyone who may be experiencing suicidal thoughts can call or text the National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline at 988, 24 hours a day, seven days a week to speak to someone qualified to help.
Nationwide, suicide is the second leading cause of death for 10- to 24-year-olds, according to the American Academy of Pediatrics. And every year, millions of Americans seriously think about suicide, plan or attempt suicide, contributing to lasting impacts on individuals, families and communities. It is considered a global health crisis.
The challenge with children is that as they grow and become more independent, it can be challenging for parents to know the difference between the normal ups and downs of adolescence and when a child is really struggling.
Between 2007 and 2019, there was a significant increase in suicides among young people, and during the Covid-19 pandemic, emergency department visits for suicide attempts further increased among adolescents 12 to 17 years of age: 50.6% higher in girls and 3.7% higher in boys. Social media has exacerbated the problem, as online bullying and harassment can be difficult to track and prevent.
While health care providers are trained to identify the risk factors in at-risk age groups, parents and caregivers are on the front lines, well-positioned to help if their child is struggling. Here are some tips for families if they see their child is struggling:
— Know the difference between a bad mood and something more serious. It’s normal for a child or adolescent’s mood to go up and down, but pay attention to what they are — or aren’t — saying and doing.
— Watch for major changes in your child’s sleep patterns, appetite and social activities.
— Understand that the world has changed and times are different. The proliferation of the internet and social media has had an adverse effect on everyone’s mental health, and children are facing threats that you may have never heard of or experienced. Social media may be the primary way some adolescents engage with their friends, but at the same time, social media can be a source of bullying and triggers. Encourage an open dialogue around social media use and ask how your adolescent feels after using social media, and if necessary, limit their use in favor of family and in-person activities.
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— Respond with empathy and patience. Dismissing what you see or hear as “teenage drama” or responding with anger or impatience invalidates their feelings and experiences. Using statements such as “I’m sorry you are feeling this way. Can you share a bit more?” and “It sounds like you’re in tremendous pain, and you can’t see a way out” lets them know that you are listening and want to help.
— Get help right away. If you are concerned about depression, self-harm or vague references to suicidal thoughts, seek care from your primary care provider as soon as possible. You can consider reaching out to a school therapist, local mental health provider or even a national suicide hotline for guidance. If you have any concern that your teen is at more immediate risk for attempting suicide, take them to the emergency department of your local hospital or call 911.
— If your child is considering suicide, call or text 988 or chat on 988lifeline.org right away. The Lifeline provides 24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, prevention and crisis resources for you or your loved ones.
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James Donaldson is a Washington State University graduate (’79). After an outstanding basketball career with WSU, he went on to play professional basketball in the NBA with the Seattle Supersonics, San Diego/L.A. Clippers, Dallas Mavericks, New York Knicks, and Utah Jazz. He also played for several teams in the European Leagues in Spain, Italy, and Greece, and he toured with The Harlem Globetrotters to wrap up his career. James was an NBA All-Star in 1988 while playing center for the Dallas Mavericks. In 2006, James was inducted into the Pac-10 Sports Hall of Fame and also the Washington State University Athletic Hall of Fame. In 2010, James was elected as a board member for the NBA Retired Players Association.
James frequently conducts speaking engagements (motivational, inspirational, educational) for organizations, schools, and youth groups.
In 2010, James was the recipient of the NBA Legends of Basketball ABC Award, awarded for outstanding contributions in Athletics–Business–Community.
He believes in being a role model for success and professionalism to the scores of young people to whom he devotes so much of his time. He currently serves on several boards and committees and is a member of many organizations.
James believes in developing relationships that create a “Win-Win” environment for everyone involved, and in being the best he can be!
For more information about James Donaldson or to request he speak at your event, contact him at:
James Donaldson is the author of “Standing Above The Crowd” and “Celebrating Your Gift of Life” and founder of the Your Gift of Life Foundation which focuses on mental health awareness and suicide prevention, especially pertaining to our school aged children and men.
If you’re interested in having James come and speak to your group of young adults, business entrepreneurs, aspiring political and community leaders, and athletic teams, please contact him at [email protected] and or leave a personal message for him at 1-800-745-3161. Keep up with him and read about how he is reaching out and making a difference in the lives of so many around the world at www.yourgiftoflife.org
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