#SuicidePreventionAwarenessMonthisSeptember, but the conversation about #mentalwellness is year-round.
In a world that is constantly pushing us back and forth, sometimes it can get overwhelming trying to keep it all together. The ages of people completing #suicide are getting younger and younger as the years progress. According to TIME, #suicide rates have risen by 57% from 2007 to 2018 amongst #teenagers and young adults. More specifically, there has been an increase in #AfricanAmerican and #Black #girls who have attempted, but not completed, #suicide.
#SuicidePreventionAwarenessMonth can be a time of remembrance of those who may have taken their own lives while raising awareness for what steps can be taken to ensure this issue does not persist. Within the #AfricanAmericancommunity, #mentalhealth is slowly coming out of being stigmatized. However, there is still progress that needs to happen for people to truly feel comfortable speaking about their #mentalhealth and wellness journeys.
#James Donaldson notes:
Welcome to the “next chapter” of my life… being a voice and an advocate for #mentalhealthawarenessandsuicideprevention, especially pertaining to our younger generation of students and student-athletes.
Getting men to speak up and reach out for help and assistance is one of my passions. Us men need to not suffer in silence or drown our sorrows in alcohol, hang out at bars and strip joints, or get involved with drug use.
Having gone through a recent bout of #depression and #suicidalthoughts myself, I realize now, that I can make a huge difference in the lives of so many by sharing my story, and by sharing various resources I come across as I work in this space. #http://bit.ly/JamesMentalHealthArticle
Order your copy of James Donaldson’s latest book,
#CelebratingYourGiftofLife:
From The Verge of Suicide to a Life of Purpose and Joy
You may not have all the answers for someone, but you can always try your best to be a better friend, colleague, or mentor to someone you know. Here are some ways to show support to someone who may be battling #suicidalthoughts or going through a rough time mentally.
Be A Listening Ear
For many who may deal with #suicidalthoughts or general ideas of negativity, sometimes they don’t feel as though they are being heard by anyone. Take time to genuinely listen to someone without interruptions and eye contact to let them know that you are engaged in the conversation and care about their well-being. Sometimes as people we want to help by giving what we feel may aid someone who is having a hard time, but that may not always be what someone needs.
Encourage Them To Do Things That They Enjoy
One of the signs of someone who may be depressed or suicidal is first detaching from usual activities that bring them joy from after-#school extracurriculars to hanging out with friends and family. It is best to first ask why someone has decided to steer away from their regular routine. From there, do your best to encourage them to do things they usually enjoy without being aggressive. You could even try performing these tasks with them so they feel more comfortable.
Understand What They May Need At The Time
With the stigmatization of #suicide still prevalent, there can be assumptions about someone who is suicidal or may have attempted #suicide. It is important to ask what someone needs. Rather it is going out for food or just the essence of your company, making yourself available makes a difference in providing support. Be mindful of how you are also feeling to prevent burnout or spreading yourself too thin while being there for others.
Provide Professional Resources
When trying to support someone through challenges they may be facing, sometimes it can be overwhelming. To remedy this, try to give someone alternative options for receiving support such as therapy or support groups. This will allow for them to have more than one option at their disposal and somewhere else to turn in case of an emergency.
Though #SeptemberisSuicidePreventionAwarenessMonth, it is important to remember that awareness goes beyond just this month. If you or someone you know needs additional support, call or text the #Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988.
James Donaldson is a Washington State University graduate (’79). After an outstanding basketball career with WSU, he went on to play professional basketball in the NBA with the Seattle Supersonics, San Diego/L.A. Clippers, Dallas Mavericks, New York Knicks, and Utah Jazz. He also played for several teams in the European Leagues in Spain, Italy, and Greece, and he toured with The Harlem Globetrotters to wrap up his career. James was an NBA All-Star in 1988 while playing center for the Dallas Mavericks. In 2006, James was inducted into the Pac-10 Sports Hall of Fame and also the Washington State University Athletic Hall of Fame. In 2010, James was elected as a board member for the NBA Retired Players Association.
James frequently conducts speaking engagements (motivational, inspirational, educational) for organizations, schools, and youth groups.
In 2010, James was the recipient of the NBA Legends of Basketball ABC Award, awarded for outstanding contributions in Athletics–Business–Community.
He believes in being a role model for success and professionalism to the scores of young people to whom he devotes so much of his time. He currently serves on several boards and committees and is a member of many organizations.
James believes in developing relationships that create a “Win-Win” environment for everyone involved, and in being the best he can be!
For more information about James Donaldson or to request he speak at your event, contact him at:
www.StandingAboveTheCrowd.com
JamesD@StandingAboveTheCrowd.com
1-800-745-3161 (voicemail & fax)
James Donaldson is the author of “Standing Above The Crowd” and “Celebrating Your Gift of Life” and founder of the Your Gift of Life Foundation which focuses on mental health awareness and suicide prevention, especially pertaining to our school aged children and men.
If you’re interested in having James come and speak to your group of young adults, business entrepreneurs, aspiring political and community leaders, and athletic teams, please contact him at jamesd@yourgiftoflife.org and or leave a personal message for him at 1-800-745-3161. Keep up with him and read about how he is reaching out and making a difference in the lives of so many around the world at www.yourgiftoflife.org
