COLUMBIA, SC (WOLO) — According to the #NationalAllianceonMentalIllness, one in five #adults will experience a #mentalhealth issue this year.
Jessica Barnes, Program Manager for the Office of #SuicidePrevention with the SC Department of Mental Health, says #MentalHealthAwarenessMonth should remind everyone that it’s okay to talk about your #mentalhealth, and it’s okay to not be okay.
“The more that we talk about it, and we say I think I need a break or I need to do some self care for myself, we are setting a good example for other people who might be hesitant to say I can’t do this right now, I need to work on me,” says Barnes.
Barnes finds it can be hard for people to open up about their feelings, so if changes are noticed in a loved one’s #behavior or personality, Barnes says that may be your invitation to open up communication with them.
“You don’t have to have all the answers. I think sometimes people get scared that they have to be there to help solve things or know exactly what to say, and you don’t have to have all the answers, or know the exact next thing to say, and that’s normal,” Barnes says.
#James Donaldson notes:
Welcome to the “next chapter” of my life… being a voice and an advocate for #mentalhealthawarenessandsuicideprevention, especially pertaining to our younger generation of students and student-athletes.
Getting men to speak up and reach out for help and assistance is one of my passions. Us men need to not suffer in silence or drown our sorrows in alcohol, hang out at bars and strip joints, or get involved with drug use.
Having gone through a recent bout of #depression and #suicidalthoughts myself, I realize now, that I can make a huge difference in the lives of so many by sharing my story, and by sharing various resources I come across as I work in this space. #http://bit.ly/JamesMentalHealthArticle
Find out more about the work I do on my 501c3 non-profit foundation
website www.yourgiftoflife.org Order your copy of James Donaldson’s latest book,
#CelebratingYourGiftofLife:
From The Verge of Suicide to a Life of Purpose and Joywww.celebratingyourgiftoflife.com
Barnes believes showing empathy and listening are the best things folks can do to help others.
“Listening to somebody who is struggling with #mentalhealth, with intense emotions, with even just stressors going on in their life, listening can go such a long way. And if you’re listening to them if you’re hearing them in an empathetic way and trying to think about how you would feel if you were going through what they’re going through, you’re helping that person,” Barnes says.
According to Barnes, South Carolina’s Mobile Crisis Team is available anytime by calling 833-364-2274. The #NationalSuicidePreventionLifeline is also available by dialing 9-8-8 on your phone. South Carolina’s Crisis Textline is also available by texting Hope4SC to 741741. Other resources available with the SC Department of Mental Health can be viewed by clicking.
“There is hope, so if you’re struggling right now or you know somebody who is struggling, our state motto is while I breathe I hope and we can help build that hope,” Barnes says.
James Donaldson is a Washington State University graduate (’79). After an outstanding basketball career with WSU, he went on to play professional basketball in the NBA with the Seattle Supersonics, San Diego/L.A. Clippers, Dallas Mavericks, New York Knicks, and Utah Jazz. He also played for several teams in the European Leagues in Spain, Italy, and Greece, and he toured with The Harlem Globetrotters to wrap up his career. James was an NBA All-Star in 1988 while playing center for the Dallas Mavericks. In 2006, James was inducted into the Pac-10 Sports Hall of Fame and also the Washington State University Athletic Hall of Fame. In 2010, James was elected as a board member for the NBA Retired Players Association.
James frequently conducts speaking engagements (motivational, inspirational, educational) for organizations, schools, and youth groups.
In 2010, James was the recipient of the NBA Legends of Basketball ABC Award, awarded for outstanding contributions in Athletics–Business–Community.
He believes in being a role model for success and professionalism to the scores of young people to whom he devotes so much of his time. He currently serves on several boards and committees and is a member of many organizations.
James believes in developing relationships that create a “Win-Win” environment for everyone involved, and in being the best he can be!
For more information about James Donaldson or to request he speak at your event, contact him at:
www.StandingAboveTheCrowd.com
[email protected]
1-800-745-3161 (voicemail & fax)
James Donaldson is the author of “Standing Above The Crowd” and “Celebrating Your Gift of Life” and founder of the Your Gift of Life Foundation which focuses on mental health awareness and suicide prevention, especially pertaining to our school aged children and men.
If you’re interested in having James come and speak to your group of young adults, business entrepreneurs, aspiring political and community leaders, and athletic teams, please contact him at [email protected] and or leave a personal message for him at 1-800-745-3161. Keep up with him and read about how he is reaching out and making a difference in the lives of so many around the world at www.yourgiftoflife.org