Frederic H. Decker
An advisory to #parents from Boston Children’s Hospital is titled: “The great #mask debate: how to deal with #bullying over face #masks in #school.” Then there is the 8-year-old #child in Missouri asking her #school district to mandate #masks after being bullied for wearing one by fellow classmates without #masks.
#Bullying in #schools over #mask wearing has been reported by local news media across the nation. #Students wearing #masks and those not apparently have been bullied and ridiculed, though it appears those wearing #masks more commonly targets. This bully, however, hasn’t been a salient topic in the national debate over face #masks in #schools.
One might expect that this bully would evaporate now that many states are ending statewide requirements to wear #masks in #schools, leaving the decision on mask mandates to local #school districts. The opposite may be the case, however.
Previous discussions over #masks at #school board meetings haven’t been encouraging, in any case, with occasions of threatening #bullying (by #adults) of board members seemingly more the rule than exception.
And, also, the #mask debate remains alive in states like Florida and Virginia where their respective Republican governors, Ron DeSantis and Glen Youngkin, have crusaded to keep local #school districts from even consideration of mandating wearing of face #masks.
#Bullying among #children does often reflect the world outside #school. Thus, Professor Sara Goldstein, an expert on child #bullying at Montclair State University, said bullying in #schools this #school year will partly reflect “#mask wearing controversies surrounding the #COVID-19 #pandemic.” She adds #school districts “should enact efforts to make #masks normalized and uncontroversial” to dampen bullying.
#JamesDonaldson notes:
Welcome to the “next chapter” of my life… being a voice and an advocate for #mentalhealthawarenessandsuicideprevention, especially pertaining to our younger generation of students and student-athletes.
Getting men to speak up and reach out for help and assistance is one of my passions. Us men need to not suffer in silence or drown our sorrows in alcohol, hang out at bars and strip joints, or get involved with drug use.
Having gone through a recent bout of #depression and #suicidalthoughts myself, I realize now, that I can make a huge difference in the lives of so many by sharing my story, and by sharing various resources I come across as I work in this space. #http://bit.ly/JamesMentalHealthArticle
Tall order, it seems, for #schools to make face #masks uncontroversial when the #adult world outside is still far from one without controversy.
As recent as last week,, Gov. DeSantis stoked the discord over #masks, adding fuel to the #bullying fire.
He was at an event at the University of South Florida to trumpet state funds for training #students in cybersecurity. And the #highschool #students behind him were wearing #masks, whereupon as he approached, he barked: “You do not have to wear those #masks. Please take them off. Honestly, it’s not doing anything. We’ve gotta stop with this #COVID theater. So if you want to wear it, fine, but this is ridiculous.”
One issue raised by those opposing #masks is that they harm #children developmentally or psychologically. Evidence showing such harm presently appears thin, however.
Whichever, the advisory in December 2021 by the U.S. Surgeon General, Dr. Vivek Murthy, on children’s declining #mentalhealth during the #pandemic, with the rise in #depression, doesn’t mention face #masks once. One risk factor mentioned, nevertheless, is “disruptions in routine, such as not…going to #school in person.”
As in-person learning returns, a paradoxical question comes to mind: Is it wearing #masks per se or #mask #bullying which harms #children the most?
#School #bullying around #masks is unlikely to recede quietly, with the #mask debate finding new territory to infiltrate (that is, more #schools where wearing #masks is optional).
Some #parents want #masks in #schools to protect their #children, particularly from other #students not vaccinated. Others believe governmental agencies have been wrong about needing #masks in #schools and, anyway, can’t be trusted.
Among #children, especially the younger among them, level of trust in government is basically irrelevant though. Relevant is trust in people: family, #adults, friends, classmates.
Inability to trust others is known to underlie #depression and #anxiety. And bullying harms a child’s ability to trust others. Even #children who witness #bullying can become distrustful of others and experience #depression.
Trust is poisoned when #children mimic in their actions toward one another, as in #mask #bullying, the quarrel over #masks heard among #adults (including loud politicians) around them. Poisoned with the #mental well-being of #children (whether masked or maskless) a likely casualty.
Frederic H. Decker is a Maryland-based sociologist and a retired civil servant formerly at the National Center for Health Statistics, #CDC.
James Donaldson is a Washington State University graduate (’79). After an outstanding basketball career with WSU, he went on to play professional basketball in the NBA with the Seattle Supersonics, San Diego/L.A. Clippers, Dallas Mavericks, New York Knicks, and Utah Jazz. He also played for several teams in the European Leagues in Spain, Italy, and Greece, and he toured with The Harlem Globetrotters to wrap up his career. James was an NBA All-Star in 1988 while playing center for the Dallas Mavericks. In 2006, James was inducted into the Pac-10 Sports Hall of Fame and also the Washington State University Athletic Hall of Fame. In 2010, James was elected as a board member for the NBA Retired Players Association.
James frequently conducts speaking engagements (motivational, inspirational, educational) for organizations, schools, and youth groups.
In 2010, James was the recipient of the NBA Legends of Basketball ABC Award, awarded for outstanding contributions in Athletics–Business–Community.
He believes in being a role model for success and professionalism to the scores of young people to whom he devotes so much of his time. He currently serves on several boards and committees and is a member of many organizations.
James believes in developing relationships that create a “Win-Win” environment for everyone involved, and in being the best he can be!
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James Donaldson is the author of “Standing Above The Crowd” and “Celebrating Your Gift of Life” and founder of the Your Gift of Life Foundation which focuses on mental health awareness and suicide prevention, especially pertaining to our school aged children and men.
If you’re interested in having James come and speak to your group of young adults, business entrepreneurs, aspiring political and community leaders, and athletic teams, please contact him at jamesd@yourgiftoflife.org and or leave a personal message for him at 1-800-745-3161. Keep up with him and read about how he is reaching out and making a difference in the lives of so many around the world at www.yourgiftoflife.org
