The #massshooting at Robb Elementary #School in Uvalde, Texas, was the deadliest #school shooting in #America since a gunman killed 20 students and six #teachers at Sandy Hook Elementary #School in Newtown, Connecticut, in 2012
Robb Elementary #School in Uvalde, Texas, joined a club no one wants to be in: the ever-growing list of #schools, places of worship, and communities torn apart by a #massshooting.
On May 24, an 18-year-old gunman entered the elementary #school and murdered 19 #children and two #teachers in a fourth-grade classroom before being shot and killed by authorities responding to the shooting, AP News reports. The shooting in the heavily Latino town happened on the heels of another #massshooting in Buffalo, New York. Only 10 days earlier, an 18-year-old gunman targeting #Black people killed 10 people in a Tops Friendly Market.
Those who weren’t directly affected by these shootings don’t escape unscathed, either.
Many have even changed how they live their lives because they fear being a victim of a shooting. In a survey published in August 2019, the #AmericanPsychologicalAssociation (#APA) found that more than three-quarters of #American #adults are stressed about possible #massshootings. That #stress was highest among #Hispanic and #Black #Americans, APA states. Nearly 1 in 3 #adults said they feel they can’t go out and about without worrying about being in a #massshooting and that their fear prevents them from attending events or going to certain places.
These fears aren’t unfounded. Although the overall rates of gun murders and #suicides are lower than their peak in 1974, the prevalence of #massshootings rose significantly over the past two decades, according to Pew Research Center. Data from the U.S. #FederalBureauofInvestigation (#FBI) show that there had been three active shooter incidents in 2000 compared with 40 in 2020.
Allison Young, MD, an adjunct professor of psychiatry at the New York University Grossman School of Medicine in New York City and a psychiatry medical reviewer for Everyday Health, talked about the impact of shootings on #mentalhealth.
Everyday Health: In what ways is #mentalhealth tied to #massshootings?
Dr. Allison Young: I think #mentalhealth plays a large role in #massshootings, but not in the way people often believe. Often when there’s a #massshooting, many people immediately assume that the shooter had a diagnosable #mentalillness. That’s often not the case, and assuming that a shooting was related to #mentalillness when it wasn’t actually attributable to #mentalillness can further stigmatize people with #mentalhealthconditions.
It’s important to recognize, however, that when we talk about #mentalhealth, it’s not just the absence of #mentalillness. The term ‘#mentalhealth’ describes an overall well-being in which someone does not have #mentaldistress and they feel generally well, both physically and mentally.
During these times, when we’re experiencing #massshootings along with the #COVID-19 #pandemic, the war in Ukraine, soaring gas prices, and inflation, many people feel a general sense of unrest and dissatisfaction with the way the world is.
In this sense, #mentalhealth definitely plays a role in #massshootings and ensuing reactions to the shootings, even when #mentalillness is not a factor. It’s important to distinguish the two when we talk about #mentalhealth and #massshootings so that we’re not stigmatizing illnesses falsely.
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EH: How has frequent news of #massshootings affected the #mentalhealth of the general public?
AY: There’s a definite sense of #hopelessness that can become attached to repeated news of #massshootings. People may see them happen so often that they may think, “What’s the point?” in a variety of circumstances.
For instance, one thing people commonly experience as a result of repeated #massshootings is decision fatigue. Everything feels like a big decision because just going to the supermarket, going to a nightclub, or sending your #kid to #school may feel dangerous to many people these days, and they wonder if they should do those things at all. It makes people rethink what used to be automatic decisions, such as going to the grocery store to buy milk or sending their kid to #school rather than homeschooling. Now, these are decisions that feel like they have a big weight attached to them and cause people #stress, often adding to the chronic #stress people already have in their lives.
I’ve seen this firsthand as a #psychiatrist. Many of my own clients have become really exhausted from thinking about these things all the time.
Seeing news of #massshootings also has a general #trauma associated with it. Obviously, it’s very traumatic for the people who either experienced it or know people immediately affected by it. But we also know that #trauma reactions can happen just from hearing about the news. People could have an acute #trauma reaction, such as not being able to sleep due to #stress or being more tearful or anxious in the aftermath. And for others, a #trauma reaction could last beyond that, and it can worsen with repeated exposure to news of #massshootings.
EH: How can people protect their #mentalhealth during this time, especially when #massshootings happen again and again in the #UnitedStates?
AY: First, know your limits. It’s obviously important to be informed about what’s happening, but if you feel like you’re having an anxious reaction to something on the news, then it’s important to control the amount of news you’re consuming.
For some people, seeing images or videos of the #school, the yellow tape around the #school, and people crying at the scene will elicit a greater emotional response than reading the news, for example. For others, it may be the opposite. For these reasons, it’s important to know yourself and stick to the form of news that brings up the least amount of negative emotions for you in order to stay informed.
Also, while staying safe is very important, we also need to remind ourselves that although #massshootings are increasing, they still haven’t happened in the majority of #schools in the country. Most #children are able to go to #school safely. It’s important to remember this because news of #massshootings can cause us to experience a sort of tunnel vision where attending #school automatically equals certain death, and you worry that your kid will inevitably die by going to school.
In addition, #self-care is very important during these times. Any activity that calms your nerves and makes you feel good — jogging, going on a walk with your dog, having a glass of tea in silence, or reading a book — can help counteract the #stress and negative emotions you’re experiencing.
It’s also important to put things in perspective. For instance, you may struggle to put your #child to bed some nights or feel aggravated and exhausted by the fact that they’ve asked for a glass of water for the fourth time in a row. I think these events remind us to keep the big picture in mind, and although it does not fix the #stress associated with mass shootings, practicing gratitude can ease some of the smaller stresses that pop up throughout the day.
EH: What else should people keep in mind during this time?
AY: It’s important to keep in mind that everybody processes trauma in their own way. Some people will spend time thinking about the shooting and practicing gratitude for what they have in their lives. Some people may feel called to donate to people who lost their #children, and some may feel called to do something to influence their government to have tighter control around gun use. And for others, just going on and living their daily life is how they process these events.
I think there can be a tendency to judge other people’s trauma and how they manage the resulting stress, but we need to remember that everybody will deal with this news in their own way. We need to be kind and respectful to others and give them space to process this in a way that feels right to them.
James Donaldson is a Washington State University graduate (’79). After an outstanding basketball career with WSU, he went on to play professional basketball in the NBA with the Seattle Supersonics, San Diego/L.A. Clippers, Dallas Mavericks, New York Knicks, and Utah Jazz. He also played for several teams in the European Leagues in Spain, Italy, and Greece, and he toured with The Harlem Globetrotters to wrap up his career. James was an NBA All-Star in 1988 while playing center for the Dallas Mavericks. In 2006, James was inducted into the Pac-10 Sports Hall of Fame and also the Washington State University Athletic Hall of Fame. In 2010, James was elected as a board member for the NBA Retired Players Association.
James frequently conducts speaking engagements (motivational, inspirational, educational) for organizations, schools, and youth groups.
In 2010, James was the recipient of the NBA Legends of Basketball ABC Award, awarded for outstanding contributions in Athletics–Business–Community.
He believes in being a role model for success and professionalism to the scores of young people to whom he devotes so much of his time. He currently serves on several boards and committees and is a member of many organizations.
James believes in developing relationships that create a “Win-Win” environment for everyone involved, and in being the best he can be!
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James Donaldson is the author of “Standing Above The Crowd” and “Celebrating Your Gift of Life” and founder of the Your Gift of Life Foundation which focuses on mental health awareness and suicide prevention, especially pertaining to our school aged children and men.
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