Written By CHRISTINA LOREY
It may be a small step in destigmatization. But at least it’s one that’s forward.
Words matter. Especially when it comes to #mentalhealth. In Wisconsin, #suicide is the ninth leading cause of death overall, and the second among 10 to 34-year-olds. One thing #suicide is not? A choice.
The Problem
Many people still use the expression “committed #suicide.” While the phrase may seem innocuous, it’s actually filled with blame and #stigma.
To many people, it’s similar to “committed a crime” or “committed a sin” and implies the act is morally reprehensible, illegal, or simply put: a choice. It is not.
#Suicide is most often the consequence of an unaddressed illness, like #depression, #trauma, or another #mentalhealthcondition. That’s why it should be discussed in the same way as any physical health condition.
You don’t “commit a heart attack.” You “die from a heart attack.” #Suicide is the same.
#James Donaldson notes:
www.celebratingyourgiftoflife.com
Welcome to the “next chapter” of my life… being a voice and an advocate for #mentalhealthawarenessandsuicideprevention, especially pertaining to our younger generation of students and student-athletes.
Getting men to speak up and reach out for help and assistance is one of my passions. Us men need to not suffer in silence or drown our sorrows in alcohol, hang out at bars and strip joints, or get involved with drug use.
Having gone through a recent bout of #depression and #suicidalthoughts myself, I realize now, that I can make a huge difference in the lives of so many by sharing my story, and by sharing various resources I come across as I work in this space. #http://bit.ly/JamesMentalHealthArticle
Find out more about the work I do on my 501c3 non-profit foundation
website www.yourgiftoflife.org Order your copy of James Donaldson’s latest book,
#CelebratingYourGiftofLife: From The Verge of Suicide to a Life of Purpose and Joy
The Solution
The best phrase to use is “died by #suicide,” since it sends the message that the death was caused by a #mentalhealthcondition.
Why It Matters
Using the correct vocabulary to discuss #mentalhealth helps eliminate the negative stereotypes that often stand in the way of people getting the help that they need.
Eliminating the phrase “committed #suicide” may be a tiny step– but at least it’s one that’s forward.
If you or someone you know needs help, the #NationalSuicidePreventionLifeline is available 24/7 at 9-8-8. Call or text that number, or click here for more ways to receive free and confidential support today.
James Donaldson is a Washington State University graduate (’79). After an outstanding basketball career with WSU, he went on to play professional basketball in the NBA with the Seattle Supersonics, San Diego/L.A. Clippers, Dallas Mavericks, New York Knicks, and Utah Jazz. He also played for several teams in the European Leagues in Spain, Italy, and Greece, and he toured with The Harlem Globetrotters to wrap up his career. James was an NBA All-Star in 1988 while playing center for the Dallas Mavericks. In 2006, James was inducted into the Pac-10 Sports Hall of Fame and also the Washington State University Athletic Hall of Fame. In 2010, James was elected as a board member for the NBA Retired Players Association.
James frequently conducts speaking engagements (motivational, inspirational, educational) for organizations, schools, and youth groups.
In 2010, James was the recipient of the NBA Legends of Basketball ABC Award, awarded for outstanding contributions in Athletics–Business–Community.
He believes in being a role model for success and professionalism to the scores of young people to whom he devotes so much of his time. He currently serves on several boards and committees and is a member of many organizations.
James believes in developing relationships that create a “Win-Win” environment for everyone involved, and in being the best he can be!
For more information about James Donaldson or to request he speak at your event, contact him at:
www.StandingAboveTheCrowd.com
JamesD@StandingAboveTheCrowd.com
1-800-745-3161 (voicemail & fax)
James Donaldson is the author of “Standing Above The Crowd” and “Celebrating Your Gift of Life” and founder of the Your Gift of Life Foundation which focuses on mental health awareness and suicide prevention, especially pertaining to our school aged children and men.
If you’re interested in having James come and speak to your group of young adults, business entrepreneurs, aspiring political and community leaders, and athletic teams, please contact him at jamesd@yourgiftoflife.org and or leave a personal message for him at 1-800-745-3161. Keep up with him and read about how he is reaching out and making a difference in the lives of so many around the world at www.yourgiftoflife.org