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#SeptemberisNationalSuicidePreventionMonth – #MentalHealth Experts Explain Why Signs Of Someone Suffering With #SuicidalThoughts Can Be Easy To Miss
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If you or a loved one are facing thoughts of #suicide or #self-harm, there is help readily available
Author: Lana Harris, Briana Harper (WCNC)
CHARLOTTE, N.C. — Every day, people across the country struggle with #mentalhealthissues — some suffering in silence. At times, the #mentalhealth battle tragically ends in #suicide.
“#Mentalhealth does not care who we are,” Bryant said.
Bryant said it can impact anyone because it warps reality.
“It distorts everything,” Bryant said. “You can have everything going for yourself and #depression is telling you still, you’re a loser.”
Bryant said #socialmedia helps to mask it.
“We put us smiling, traveling, doing things, wearing beautiful clothes,” Bryant said. “But on the inside, we’re coming apart.”
Bryant said she knows firsthand what it’s like to wrestle with #suicide.
“The thing is I really want people to realize, we didn’t want to die,” Bryant said. “In that moment, we’re dealing with excruciating pain from the top of our head to the bottom of our feet.”
Bryant said her life was only spared thanks to a phone call with an aunt.
“She recognized that something was wrong, and she called me back and asked me, ‘Are you going to kill yourself?'” Bryant said. “And I said yes. And she went into action.”
Bryant said many people don’t reach out for help, fearing judgment.
“That #stigma,” Bryant said, “Oh, ‘They can’t handle their job,’ ‘What do you mean you’re depressed,’ ‘You have money, you have looks.’ If you’re going to judge us, we’re going to shut down because see we already feel worthless. We already feel hopeless.”
Instead, Piedmont Medical Center #psychiatrist Dr. Brian Mika said its important to normalize the conversation about #suicide and #depression to help with healing help instead of harm.
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“If you’re having thoughts that I’m feeling overwhelmed, I’m feeling depressed, I’m feeling down, I’m not sure how I can go on and that’s when you get the help and that’s perfectly normal,” Mika said.
Paying attention to the big and small signs can oftentimes help save a life too.
“The absence of emotion is troubling and concerning sign and you want to investigate that. Talk to people,” Mika said.
Bryant said anyone reaching out should be taken seriously. She said asking simple questions like “What did you mean by that” and “Are you OK” could make all the difference.
“We don’t all come out and say you know, I’m going to hurt myself,” Bryant said. “It can be very cryptic.”
Bryant said it’s important to recognize the things people aren’t saying. It’s why Bryant holds free virtual #suicideprevention classes so more people can recognize the signs.
“The thing is with #suicide, it leaves questions,” Bryant said. “Why didn’t I check on them, why didn’t I know the signs, why didn’t I reach out, why didn’t they reach out to me? Those will bother you for the rest of your life.”
Some of the signs Bryant said could indicate someone is suffering are a change in #behavior or personality, isolating, eating or sleeping too much or too little, self-medicating, and an infatuation with death. She said if thoughts and symptoms like these last more than two weeks and interfere with everyday life, you should see a professional immediately if you can, but even talking with a friend can help.
If you or a loved one are facing thoughts of #suicide or #self-harm, there is help readily available. You can call The #NationalSuicidePreventionLifeline at 800-273-8255 or chat with them online. There are also resources in North Carolina available here and in South Carolina available here.
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James Donaldson is a Washington State University graduate (’79). After an outstanding basketball career with WSU, he went on to play professional basketball in the NBA with the Seattle Supersonics, San Diego/L.A. Clippers, Dallas Mavericks, New York Knicks, and Utah Jazz. He also played for several teams in the European Leagues in Spain, Italy, and Greece, and he toured with The Harlem Globetrotters to wrap up his career. James was an NBA All-Star in 1988 while playing center for the Dallas Mavericks. In 2006, James was inducted into the Pac-10 Sports Hall of Fame and also the Washington State University Athletic Hall of Fame. In 2010, James was elected as a board member for the NBA Retired Players Association.
James frequently conducts speaking engagements (motivational, inspirational, educational) for organizations, schools, and youth groups.
In 2010, James was the recipient of the NBA Legends of Basketball ABC Award, awarded for outstanding contributions in Athletics–Business–Community.
He believes in being a role model for success and professionalism to the scores of young people to whom he devotes so much of his time. He currently serves on several boards and committees and is a member of many organizations.
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James Donaldson is the author of “Standing Above The Crowd” and “Celebrating Your Gift of Life” and founder of the Your Gift of Life Foundation which focuses on mental health awareness and suicide prevention, especially pertaining to our school aged children and men.
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