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When someone stops breathing and is suffering a cardiac arrest, their life may be saved by a bystander who has been trained in CPR. Likewise, when someone is facing a potential #suicide crisis, their life may be saved by a friend who has been trained in #QPR.
The “#QuestionPersuadeRefer.” method is an emergency #mentalhealth intervention intended to identify and interrupt a #suicide crisis and direct the affected person to the proper care.
Both CPR and QPR fill the gap between the moment of crisis and the arrival of professional care by following a prescribed series of steps.
#Farmers and their allies can learn the QPR method of #suicideprevention by attending a free online webinar, “QPR for #Farmers and Farm Families,” from the AgriSafe Network. Check the schedule at agrisafe.org/courses/qpr_sda.
AgriSafe has seven certified QPR trainers, including Tara Haskins, the total #farmer health director for AgriSafe Network, and Amanda Stone, assistant professor and Extension dairy specialist for Mississippi State University.
- Read more: Breaking the #stigma of #farmer #suicide
Upon completion, attendees will be designated as QPR-trained Gatekeepers, which means they are able to recognize the warning signs of #suicide, know how to offer hope, and are able to get professional help for the person in need. “You don’t have to be a #nurse,” Stone says. “All of us have a role in helping producers.”
“We are not intending to make you into a #counselor or #therapist, but to offer hope through positive action,” Haskins says. “Research has shown us that laypeople can be very effective in encouraging others to get to treatment.”
ACKNOWLEDGING THE CULTURE OF #FARMING
This training goes beyond typical QPR training to include information specific to #farmers. “Knowing the stressors associated with farm life and culture should inform how you Question, Persuade, and Refer anyone you may speak with about their #mentalhealth or #suicidalideations,” Stone says. “We’re going to let you walk a mile in a farmer’s shoes.”
The rate of #suicide and self-harm among #farmers is nearly twice that of the general population, she says. Contributing factors include long hours, physically demanding work, unpredictable income, factors out of the farmer’s control, #isolation, pressure to keep the farm in the family, and an identity closely tied to being a #farmer.
- Read more: Who am I if I’m not a #farmer anymore?
“Losing the farm or the threat of not being able to pass it on to future generations can really equal the epitome of failure for the #farmer,” Stone says. “It’s like they are losing themselves.”
Because of the #stigma some associate with #mentalhealth and the lack of local #mentalhealthcare, many #farmers resist seeking help. That makes it even more important for family members and friends of #farmers to be aware of symptoms that could point to a potential #suicide crisis.
“All of us have a role in helping producers.”
— Amanda Stone, PhD
“Rugged individualism prevents help seeking-#behavior,” Stone says. #Farmers may think that since their father or grandfather made it through hard times, they should be able to as well.
She says guns are often needed on the farm and are very easily accessible, which increases the lethal risk for self-harm or #suicide.
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SIGNS AND SYMPTOMS
Stone says the alarming rates of #stress and #depression in the industry can also increase the farmer’s risk of injury and the likelihood of diseases such as cancer and diabetes. The first signs may be physical complaints like headaches and abdominal pain.
Other signs that something’s not right may include drinking more than usual and letting things go on the farm. If a farmer’s shop is generally tidy, and you notice tools lying everywhere, he or she could be dealing with #depression. “Step in when you feel like you need to step in,” Stone says.
- Read more: FarmHer: Breaking the silence
“Don’t leave the farm if you think something’s going on with a #farmer that you think could be detrimental. It’s difficult to ask if they’re considering #suicide but that needs to be asked.”
Haskins agrees that asking that question is the hardest part. “You may not know the perfect words to say,” she says. “You don’t have to fill the space with words. Just ask open-ended questions and give them the time to talk.”
“We need to look at #suicide as a preventable death.”
— Tara Haskins, DNP, RN
Your willingness to listen and to help can rekindle hope and make all the difference.” Seek professional help. Since QPR is intended to be a stop-gap until professional help can be obtained, the webinar instructs Gatekeepers to store all the needed contact information in their phones, including #suicide hotlines, local hospitals, and #mentalhealthprofessionals. This is something everyone can do.
“You may need to dial the phone for them,” Haskins says. “Offer to ride along and wait in the parking lot while they go in and talk to someone.”
People who are having #suicidalthoughts feel a disconnect from their community. “QPR tries to reconnect them with people who care,” Haskins says. “We need to look at #suicide as a preventable death.”
James Donaldson is a Washington State University graduate (’79). After an outstanding basketball career with WSU, he went on to play professional basketball in the NBA with the Seattle Supersonics, San Diego/L.A. Clippers, Dallas Mavericks, New York Knicks, and Utah Jazz. He also played for several teams in the European Leagues in Spain, Italy, and Greece, and he toured with The Harlem Globetrotters to wrap up his career. James was an NBA All-Star in 1988 while playing center for the Dallas Mavericks. In 2006, James was inducted into the Pac-10 Sports Hall of Fame and also the Washington State University Athletic Hall of Fame. In 2010, James was elected as a board member for the NBA Retired Players Association.
James frequently conducts speaking engagements (motivational, inspirational, educational) for organizations, schools, and youth groups.
In 2010, James was the recipient of the NBA Legends of Basketball ABC Award, awarded for outstanding contributions in Athletics–Business–Community.
He believes in being a role model for success and professionalism to the scores of young people to whom he devotes so much of his time. He currently serves on several boards and committees and is a member of many organizations.
James believes in developing relationships that create a “Win-Win” environment for everyone involved, and in being the best he can be!
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James Donaldson is the author of “Standing Above The Crowd” and “Celebrating Your Gift of Life” and founder of the Your Gift of Life Foundation which focuses on mental health awareness and suicide prevention, especially pertaining to our school aged children and men.
If you’re interested in having James come and speak to your group of young adults, business entrepreneurs, aspiring political and community leaders, and athletic teams, please contact him at jamesd@yourgiftoflife.org and or leave a personal message for him at 1-800-745-3161. Keep up with him and read about how he is reaching out and making a difference in the lives of so many around the world at www.yourgiftoflife.org
